My husband and I both have good jobs, but we live in different cities. He constantly asks me to cover his monthly expenses, putting his mom and relatives first. My mother-in-law is very controlling and wants a divorce. Sadly, my father-in-law took his own life due to mental health issues and arguments with his wife. Now, my husband threatens to take our children away and won’t contribute to their needs. When both partners earn, who should be responsible for family expenses?

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Law Forum › Category: Divorce › My husband and I both have good jobs, but we live in different cities. He constantly asks me to cover his monthly expenses, putting his mom and relatives first. My mother-in-law is very controlling and wants a divorce. Sadly, my father-in-law took his own life due to mental health issues and arguments with his wife. Now, my husband threatens to take our children away and won’t contribute to their needs. When both partners earn, who should be responsible for family expenses?
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Apni Law Staff asked 3 months ago

My husband and I both have good jobs, but we live in different cities. He constantly asks me to cover his monthly expenses, putting his mom and relatives first. My mother-in-law is very controlling and wants a divorce. Sadly, my father-in-law took his own life due to mental health issues and arguments with his wife. Now, my husband threatens to take our children away and won’t contribute to their needs. When both partners earn, who should be responsible for family expenses?

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Apni Law Staff answered 3 months ago

In India, both spouses are legally responsible for contributing to family expenses proportionally to their incomes. Your husband’s refusal to contribute and his threats are concerning. Consult a lawyer to understand your rights and potential legal recourse, including child custody and support.

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