I’m struggling to cope. My husband, a central government employee, has a serious drinking problem. We’ve been together for ten years, but the mental and physical abuse is unbearable. He’s even refused to include my name in his official records. I’m currently living with my parents, but it’s getting hard to manage with three children. What legal options do I have to ensure their future and my safety?

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Law Forum › Category: Divorce › I’m struggling to cope. My husband, a central government employee, has a serious drinking problem. We’ve been together for ten years, but the mental and physical abuse is unbearable. He’s even refused to include my name in his official records. I’m currently living with my parents, but it’s getting hard to manage with three children. What legal options do I have to ensure their future and my safety?
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Apni Law Staff asked 2 years ago

I’m struggling to cope. My husband, a central government employee, has a serious drinking problem. We’ve been together for ten years, but the mental and physical abuse is unbearable. He’s even refused to include my name in his official records. I’m currently living with my parents, but it’s getting hard to manage with three children. What legal options do I have to ensure their future and my safety?

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Apni Law Staff answered 2 years ago

You can file for divorce on grounds of cruelty and seek alimony and child custody. You can also file a domestic violence case against your husband and seek a restraining order to ensure your safety. Consult a lawyer to understand your rights and options in detail.

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