My husband and I are struggling. He doesn’t want me to work, even though we need the money, and his family keeps taking out loans. He doesn’t trust me, even though I was just working close to home. He even came to my school and made a scene! His aunt, who often visits, lies to his mother and then they tell him things that aren’t true. This leads to fights and constant criticism of me and my family. I feel trapped and unhappy.