I wrote a heartfelt letter to a girl, expressing my feelings and wanting to meet her family. She was startled, and her reaction was quite strong. The police have filed a case, and I’m currently on bail. She later mentioned to my brother that she was scared by the letter and no longer wants to proceed with the case. I believe the charges will be dropped eventually, but can I stop the court from formally accusing me? I’m worried this might hurt my future. Would it be wise to ask her to appear in court and help dismiss the case before it goes any further? This would be the best way to save my career. Any advice on how to approach this sensitive situation?

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Law Forum › Category: Criminal › I wrote a heartfelt letter to a girl, expressing my feelings and wanting to meet her family. She was startled, and her reaction was quite strong. The police have filed a case, and I’m currently on bail. She later mentioned to my brother that she was scared by the letter and no longer wants to proceed with the case. I believe the charges will be dropped eventually, but can I stop the court from formally accusing me? I’m worried this might hurt my future. Would it be wise to ask her to appear in court and help dismiss the case before it goes any further? This would be the best way to save my career. Any advice on how to approach this sensitive situation?

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Apni Law Staff asked 8 months ago

I wrote a heartfelt letter to a girl, expressing my feelings and wanting to meet her family. She was startled, and her reaction was quite strong. The police have filed a case, and I’m currently on bail. She later mentioned to my brother that she was scared by the letter and no longer wants to proceed with the case. I believe the charges will be dropped eventually, but can I stop the court from formally accusing me? I’m worried this might hurt my future. Would it be wise to ask her to appear in court and help dismiss the case before it goes any further? This would be the best way to save my career. Any advice on how to approach this sensitive situation?

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Apni Law Staff answered 8 months ago

It’s understandable you are concerned, but approaching the woman directly to influence her testimony could be considered harassment and further complicate the situation. Your brother can advise her that you respect her feelings and won’t pursue contact, and you should consult a lawyer to understand the legal process and potential outcomes. It’s crucial to avoid any actions that could be construed as pressure or coercion.